Saturday, 11 March 2017

narcissism

2017 and everybody is being programmed to conform to the new grid for social division based on identifying everybody else as narcissists and therefore dangerous. This is even more powerful than setting gender against gender because it functions regardless of gender.

Many of the "identifiers" actually describe other behaviour. To use these indicators is to foster a permanent state of paranoia that your closest partner is secretly out to get you and to hold you into that state.

Any sign which slightly suggests an indication of narcissism (for example contemplating a topic from a different perspective than habitual attitude, is regarded a sign of an evolving mind, however in the context of anti-narcissism it is a red flag).

Having said this - I have had more than my own share of Narcissistic personality Disorder abusers destroying my life, self-esteem, etc. The best way to deal with them is to recognize them as a grindstone sharpening your clarity. A zen master can not become a zen master without a petty tyrant.

To paraphrase Don Matus from Carlos Casteneda books about Shamanism:  

"In the old days, Men of Knowledge would seek out Petty Tyrants because they are the best teachers to help us achieve becoming Sorcerers." 










A lot of the descriptors in this particular link from Health foundations are describing more experienced and spiritually developed people, and people who are distracted by ordinary things of life, from the perspective of less experienced and more fearful people.

It is designed to give people a mind-set where they recognize a more liberated and successful person and target that person as a narcissist therefore a danger to society.

Ergo: The whole manuscript has been written by a master narcissist with the agenda of dividing society so that fearful inexperienced people do not mingle with potential teachers who can help them advance. This is anti-community based.

There is a cross-over between some behaviours and we all need to be aware that in this cross-over is ground for exploitation. Which is what is probably going to happen if people take the advice of this link from Health Foundations as 100%

I am a qualified counselor with a lot of experience of both NPD and its victims, and usually the grey-area between.




http://mysticalraven.com/health/4629/anxiety-disorders-typically-caused-by-exposure-to-narcissistic-abuse


http://bigthink.com/philip-perry/been-traumatized-here-is-how-ptsd-rewires-the-brain?utm_campaign=Echobox&utm_medium=Social&utm_source=Facebook#link_time=1489162219

http://bigthink.com/ideafeed/some-teens-use-self-harm-as-emotional-medication

http://bigthink.com/ideafeed/watching-violent-events-unfold-over-social-media-can-cause-vicarious-trauma




http://thenarcissisticlife.com/the-narcissist-in-court/


http://www.rebelcircus.com/blog/gaslighting-mind-game-abusers-use-make-victims-think-theyre-going-crazy/



http://personality-testing.info/tests/NPI/

https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/3384/hidden-language-narcissists-manipulate-traumatize-victims/

http://www.lisaescott.com/2012/03/18/why-narcissist-always-turns-idolizing-you-utter-contempt

http://www.thenarcissisticpersonality.com/male-victims-of-narcissists/


http://iheartintelligence.com/2017/03/10/emotionally-intelligent-people-deal-toxic-people/?=minds


http://www.reportfella.com/2017/03/reactive-abuse-they-call-you-abusive.html?m=0


http://latesthealthnews.pw/10-unbelievable-behaviors-of-the-narcissist/


https://narcsite.com/2017/03/18/the-narcissistic-truths-no-222/

https://themindsjournal.com/the-toxic-attraction-between-an-empath-and-a-narcissist/

https://freefromtoxic.com/2017/01/02/the-8-most-common-narc-sadistic-conversation-control-tactics-2/

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http://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2017/03/this-is-what-happens-when-you-discard-an-abusive-narcissist-first/

https://afternarcissisticabuse.wordpress.com/2017/03/29/the-narcissist-isnt-attacking-your-faults-and-shortcomings-heshe-is-attacking-your-virtues-and-accomplishments-this-is-how-they-manage-you-down-to-feeling-worth-2/


http://www.outofthestorm.website/cptsd-description/

http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-28186/7-signs-your-relationship-is-abusive-even-if-theres-no-physical-violence.html

https://letmereach.com/2015/09/03/3-best-kept-narcissistic-secrets-that-will-make-everything-clear/

https://lonerwolf.com/are-you-an-empathic-narcissist/

http://www.puckermob.com/moblog/13-things-to-know-about-someone-who-grew-up-emotionally-abused

http://www.psychopath-research.com/forum/ubbthreads.php/topics/1837/16_Faces_of_a_Psychopath

http://americanhealthnews.org/15-things-narcissists-dont-do-must-look-no-15/

https://luckyottershaven.com/2016/09/01/is-narcissism-really-a-form-of-possession/

http://healthfoundations.pw/7-weird-things-that-only-narcissists-will-do/

http://www.theearthchild.co.za/every-single-one-10-things-emotional-abuse-1/

http://healthguidelines.co/5-sneaky-things-narcissists-do-to-take-advantage-of-you/

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-signs-gaslighting-in-relationship

https://freefromtoxic.com/2015/07/02/11-mental-tips-tricks-to-move-on-after-narcissistic-abuse/

http://healthfoundations.pw/9-ways-to-tell-if-the-victim-blog-you-read-is-run-by-a-narcissist/

https://freefromtoxic.com/

http://healthfoundations.pw/7-subtle-signs-that-your-life-is-dangerous-for-narcissist/8/

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https://letmereach.com/2014/08/27/6-steps-to-emotional-healing-after-narcissistic-abuse-1-is-most-important/

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http://iheartintelligence.com/2017/03/31/anxiety-disorders-narcissistic-abuse/

http://healthissues.pw/19-signs-you-were-raised-by-a-narcissistic-mother-or-father-2/


"The personality disordered requires constant external stimulation. They have no ability to go inward or to do independent and lone activities. Their inner-self is dead and only awakened when there is a people-source feeding it."
http://www.truth2day.com/2017/04/the-dangerous-female-friend-of.html

https://tonic.vice.com/en_us/article/how-to-get-someone-to-let-their-guard-down

http://www.truth2day.com/2017/03/every-single-one-of-these-10-things-is.html

http://healthfoundations.pw/19-signs-you-were-raised-by-a-narcissistic-parent/

http://healthfoundations.pw/8-things-narcopaths-use-against-you/

http://latesthealthnews.pw/the-7-things-narcissists-are-most-afraid-of/

http://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2016/06/20-diversion-tactics-highly-manipulative-narcissists-sociopaths-and-psychopaths-use-to-silence-you/

http://healthadvices.co/5-signs-you-are-having-a-narcissistic-sibling/

http://iheartintelligence.com/2017/03/10/narcissists-sociopaths-convince/

https://shrink4men.wordpress.com/2009/01/30/10-signs-your-girlfriend-or-wife-is-an-emotional-bully/

https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/how-the-narcissist-projects-hisher-behaviour-onto-you/

http://letmereach.com/2014/09/05/narcissists-and-the-sex-agenda/

http://healthcureusa.com/8-common-narcissist-lies/

http://health.yourdailyideas.com/19-signs-you-were-raised-by-a-narcissistic-mother-or-father/

http://www.factrider.com/2017/04/things-your-narcissist-ex-will-do-post.html

https://fractalenlightenment.com/40746/issues/cognitive-dissonance-mass-media-enslavement-human-raceways-seeing-cognitive-dissonance-media-manipulating-youdouble-think-media-manipulation-youre-lied

http://www.drsyrasderksen.com/blog/seeing-narcissism-in-the-brain#sthash.81dMw5vY.DMO1uMEg.dpbs
"NPD affects about 1% of the general population."
Narcissistic Personality Disorder affects about 1% of the general population and it has been shown to impair interpersonal functioning. This groundbreaking research will likely help legitimize the disorder and, ironically, help people to empathize with people who are suffering with this illness. - See more at: http://www.drsyrasderksen.com/blog/seeing-narcissism-in-the-brain#sthash.81dMw5vY.DMO1uMEg.dpuf
Narcissistic Personality Disorder affects about 1% of the general population and it has been shown to impair interpersonal functioning. This groundbreaking research will likely help legitimize the disorder and, ironically, help people to empathize with people who are suffering with this illness. - See more at: http://www.drsyrasderksen.com/blog/seeing-narcissism-in-the-brain#sthash.81dMw5vY.DMO1uMEg.dpuf
Narcissistic Personality Disorder affects about 1% of the general population and it has been shown to impair interpersonal functioning. This groundbreaking research will likely help legitimize the disorder and, ironically, help people to empathize with people who are suffering with this illness. - See more at: http://www.drsyrasderksen.com/blog/seeing-narcissism-in-the-brain#sthash.81dMw5vY.DMO1uMEg.dpuf
Narcissistic Personality Disorder affects about 1% of the general population and it has been shown to impair interpersonal functioning. This groundbreaking research will likely help legitimize the disorder and, ironically, help people to empathize with people who are suffering with this illness. - See more at: http://www.drsyrasderksen.com/blog/seeing-narcissism-in-the-brain#sthash.81dMw5vY.DMO1uMEg.dpuf

https://www.powerofpositivity.com/11-ways-narcissists-will-try-manipulate/

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfuPE3x7JmE&t=5s 
Why are we targetted by narcissists part 1

https://narcsite.com/2017/04/13/ten-rejections-of-intimacy-2/

http://health.yourdailyideas.com/11-things-not-to-do-with-narcissists/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WVLZXLyO-M&feature=youtu.be
20 signs you are with a covert narcissist

http://mysticalraven.com/relationships/5342/love-bombing-are-you-a-victim-of-this-common-love-fraud-tactic


http://ehelth.online/2017/04/15/are-you-dating-a-narcissist-9-warning-signs-to-watch-out-for/2/

I took the liberty of rephrasing this checklist to say exactly the same thing in different words.
The purpose of this is to highlight that people are being manipulated by being trained to identify normal behavior as sociopathic behavior and to prejudice against normal people who are doing normal things as a part of 'divide and control' strategy to segregate people, to destroy couples, families, communities and nations, generally everybody is affected.

I also changed the gender to highlight how sexist the original document is and therefore it targets women to be brainwashed into rejecting normal males. This is part of fifth wave feminism.
1. She does not feel she has been rewarded enough for her achievements and hopes to receive recognition for them
2. She is very focused on her goals and knows what she wants in life
3. She is special because everybody is special and she seeks to interact with people on the same level of being as herself and where she intends to be.
4. She needs positive attention energy and recognition of their value to thrive.
5. She is entitled to live a life worth living and benefit from available cultural norms.
6. She makes the most of her situation and social life. The original statement for this does describe a sociopath. The original statement does not directly use the word 'manipulator'. Contemplate: "She saw an opportunity and took it." And contemplate ethics.
7. Her strength is her logical mind and clear thinking. She is a rationalist although lacks social skills. The original statement does bullet-point describe a symptom of NPD.
8. She feels emotionally threatened by people who she perceives as more successful and able than herself and is aware of others feeling the same way about her. Note that the original statement about jealousy relies on emotional awareness which contradicts statement 7 regarding lack of empathy. Answering that contradiction leads into a more complicated topic of functioning of the limbic cortex and higher developed cerebrum of the brain (reptile mind v mammals).
9. She is confidence and believes in herself. She enjoys sharing her knowledge with others even perhaps regarding it as a social duty even when they do not wish to receive it because they are less experienced and educated and resent her ability.

On analysis there are only TWO of these 9 statements which indicate a genuine narcissist and one of them is debatable. Just enough to be persuasive by altering the context of the other statements toward that bias.

The writer of this DEBUNK has been psychologically profiled and has a Narcissist Rating of 20% the average is 35% where 50% enters into "concern that this person is a narcissist" and 60%+ is degrees of actual clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).

The original list copypasted from page 2 of the site:

1. He exaggerates his achievements in the hope of receiving praise from other people.
2. He’s preoccupied with fantasies of limitless success, love, and brilliance.
3. He believes he’s special and should only associate with other special people.
4. He needs to be admired.
5.He feels entitled and believe his needs should always be met.
6. He takes advantage of, and exploits other people.
7. He lacks empathy for other people.
8. He gets jealous of other people and believes they are jealous of them.
9. He’s arrogant and he displays self-important, condescending, behaviors.



https://www.elephantjournal.com/2015/08/gaslighting-the-mind-game-everyone-should-know-about/

https://www.powerofpositivity.com/5-things-never-expect-narcissist/?c=viralcontent

http://healthrehabs.info/19-signs-you-were-raised/

https://www.powerofpositivity.com/7-signs-someone-trying-psychologically-manipulate/

http://nymedtimes.info/how-to-recover-after-a-narcissistic-relationship/

http://covertnarcissism.blogspot.co.uk/2016/02/character-assassination-narcissist.html?m=1




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